THE BEST FAT LOSS ADVICE YOU WILL EVER HEAR

I used to weigh 328lbs. I was miserable, in pain, cranky, exhausted and frankly, hated my life. In an attempt to alleviate said pain, I desperately tried numerous methods and fixes. I know what it feels like to wake up, and obsess over your weight every day, and wish it could be GONE. In order to lose 110lbs, I had to change my MINDSET and APPROACH. I had to do something DIFFERENT than anything found in the wreckage of my many failed attempts to diet the fat away. So how did I lose 110lbs? One Day at a Time.  One…

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SHAME CULTURE HAS GONE TOO FAR

“The over use of the term “shaming” has stretched a once-useful word into near meaninglessness.” –  Mark Peters, Slate Shaming will NEVER work as a long term solution to ANY problem. What seems to be disappearing rapidly in our society, is an ability to hear legitimate constructive criticism, and the unwillingness to accept that we might be incorrect in our perception or thinking of an issue. In my arena, this typically comes up, when trying to navigate this particularly thorny topic of “fat-shaming” and it’s cousin the Health at Every Size (HAES) movement. These movements have noble aims, and are…

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GOOD VS GOOD: THE REAL WEIGHT LOSS STORY

We often think of weight loss as “Good vs Evil” As in, Celery is “good” and donuts are “evil” or some variation of this. It’s not. More often than not, it’s “Good vs Good.” “Huh?” I hear you say Weight loss isn’t about trading bad for good. This is where many people get hung up. Let me explain: Eating chocolate when you’re sad or lonely isn’t “bad”. Having a few drinks with your friends to unwind after a long week isn’t “bad” When you’re sad, bored, stressed or lonely, it’s perceived as a problem. Eating chocolate temporarily solves a problem.…

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OH C’MON, JUST LIVE A LITTLE

“80/20 rule right?” “Ya gotta live a little” Comforting words.  But most people’s 80/20 is a lot more like 50/50 at best. 80% requires significantly ABOVE average effort. You want to see average? Here’s some numbers for North America. The average North American is 20-30lbs overweight. It gets worse. Every decade after 30, that number goes up.  This trend isn’t going to be reversed with average effort Yes. It’s 100% easier to eat mindlessly. It’s easier because no effort is required, and you can just operate on autopilot. Somewhere along the way though, we confused “easier” with “better”.  If you…

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“WHY I QUIT DRINKING AT 29”

“No thanks, I’m good” can really trigger people. Had an interesting chat with a young man today, who told me about why he quit drinking 2 years ago He said it’s been interesting observing people’s reactions when he says “I don’t drink” (usually in social situations where alcohol is present and offered to him) He said there’s often a defensive response, while they look at the drink in their hand. As though in that moment, they stop and consider why they might be drinking and might not like the real reason they drink For the record, he isn’t against alcohol,…

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HOW TO NAP LIKE A PRO

The big mistake people make with naps, is trying to use them to make up for a lack of sleep.  Nap = recharge, not compensate. 1. Keeping naps shorter means you’re less likely to wake up groggy and halfway into deep sleep. 2. Using a sleep mask to create darkness over your eyes signals time for sleep, and improves the quality of sleep you get. 3. White noise Blocks out most disruptions, and using the same noise every time (e.g. bubbling creek, waves etc) helps you fall asleep faster and stay asleep. 4. Most people get anxious about a short nap,…

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IT’S EASIER TO DO NOTHING

I ask my clients to track what they eat.  Is it a bit of an effort, and sometimes a pain to track what you eat? (*Note: track can be as simple as taking photos of meals) Yes. It’s 100% easier to eat mindlessly.  It’s easier because no effort is required, and you can just operate on autopilot. Somewhere along the way though, we confused “easier” with “better”.  And it’s killing us.  I don’t believe “ignorance is bliss” is true in all situations.  We say “I’d rather not know” until something terrible happens to our health, and then we say “If…

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YOU’RE NOT ADDICTED TO SUGAR

“I think I’m addicted to sugar” I’m going to annoy you right now and call BS … You are not addicted to sugar. Seriously.  Do you get high off of eating bananas … apples … honey … pineapple?  Are you breaking into cars for change for donuts? “Hey, but Coach Jon … some guy told me that sugar lights up the brain like cocaine!” ​​ Yeah, so does music … and hugs … but trying to compare a hit of sugar, to a hit of cocaine … It’s like trying to compare getting squirted with a water gun …  and…

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THE REAL REASON WHY YOU CAN’T LOSE WEIGHT

Struggling to make progress? Not seeing the results you want? Here’s why. “I want to lose weight” … Is not compelling enough It is not enough to stop you from eating for emotional reasons, when you’re tired from a long day. If a doctor told a smoker “the next cigarette you smoke, your heart will explode” that smoker will probably never smoke a cigarette again. That doesn’t mean the smoker won’t crave cigarettes ever again. But there’s a very powerful reason for them not to smoke. Powerful enough that they will dig deep and endure the difficult cravings. They have…

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HOW I LOST 110LBS (AND YOU CAN TOO)

I want to tell you my own personal story here. Look at “Old Jon” on the right, and “New Jon” on the left. ​What’s the difference between “Old Jon” and “New Jon”? (Besides the obvious physical change) Well, what did “Old Jon” do, to get so heavy in the first place? Well, when he got injured … he ate a dutch chocolate bundt cake (the whole thing … sitting alone in his basement suite while binge-watching Netflix) Got a new job … ate an entire large pizza from Little Caesars (in the parking lot, so no one would see it)…

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